ari ni aku minta puji sikit. eh banyak...
sebab tiba-tiba rasa mo share sumthing with the readers- whoever is reading.
okay, mari serius....
=)
Hubby and i were young when we married. Like most young married couples, we had to make some big adjustment. Although we were head over heels in love, quite simply, we were learning to live together.
Several months into our marriage, we had many disagreements.. and biasalah... women are more sensitive than men, women talk more than men - in those situations, i tend to choose words that were insensitive or unkind. I said something that I knew I shouldn't have... and I can see those words really hurt him .
But man is always a man : they take most things (better or worse) just SIMPLE!
He no longer wanted to finish the conversation; he simply left me all alone and entered any of the room in the house. As he left, I pondered what had just happened. It was then I felt a voice speak to me deep down in my heart ;"if you don't change your words, you're going to change the man you married" and I scared of myself! I'm serious on this!! Coz, i don't wanna destroy our relationship. I dearly loved him and I didn't want him to change. At that moment, I chose to love him exactly the way he was.
Right then I made the decision to start overlooking those little irritations and to begin focusing on unconditional love and acceptance in our relationship. Instead of getting upset, I took the time to understand him and magnify the good qualities in him. When I did that, I've noticed he responded the same way. The more I treat him like a king, the more he treats me like a queen.
Now we have grown together.
We have learned many things together.
We shared lots of things together.
and...
I believed we have built the best relationship in the world.
so,
lesson of the day;
we must handle our relationship with great care and that love doesn't just happen - we must choose it!
p/s: I love you very strong!
sebab tiba-tiba rasa mo share sumthing with the readers- whoever is reading.
okay, mari serius....
=)
Hubby and i were young when we married. Like most young married couples, we had to make some big adjustment. Although we were head over heels in love, quite simply, we were learning to live together.
Several months into our marriage, we had many disagreements.. and biasalah... women are more sensitive than men, women talk more than men - in those situations, i tend to choose words that were insensitive or unkind. I said something that I knew I shouldn't have... and I can see those words really hurt him .
But man is always a man : they take most things (better or worse) just SIMPLE!
He no longer wanted to finish the conversation; he simply left me all alone and entered any of the room in the house. As he left, I pondered what had just happened. It was then I felt a voice speak to me deep down in my heart ;"if you don't change your words, you're going to change the man you married" and I scared of myself! I'm serious on this!! Coz, i don't wanna destroy our relationship. I dearly loved him and I didn't want him to change. At that moment, I chose to love him exactly the way he was.
Right then I made the decision to start overlooking those little irritations and to begin focusing on unconditional love and acceptance in our relationship. Instead of getting upset, I took the time to understand him and magnify the good qualities in him. When I did that, I've noticed he responded the same way. The more I treat him like a king, the more he treats me like a queen.
Now we have grown together.
We have learned many things together.
We shared lots of things together.
and...
I believed we have built the best relationship in the world.
so,
lesson of the day;
we must handle our relationship with great care and that love doesn't just happen - we must choose it!
We were friends first, and then the love thing came around second, and that's how it still is..
p/s: I love you very strong!